Baby Boomers – what makes them tick

Value your Time with the loved ones

This is recycled from an email that I received.  Thought I’d post it here, instead of spamming the mailbox. 

 A young man learns what’s most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him. Over the phone, his mother told him, “Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.” Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. “Jack, did you hear me?” “Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It’s been so long since I thought of him. I’m sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,” Jack said. “Well, he didn’t forget you. Every time I saw him he’d ask how you were doing. He’d reminisce about the many days you spent over ‘his side of the fence’ as he put it,” Mom told him. “I loved that old house he lived in,” Jack said. “You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man’s influence in your life,” she said “He’s the one who taught me carpentry,” he said. “I wouldn’t be in this business if it weren’t for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important…Mom, I’ll be there for the funeral,” Jack said. As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser’s funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture….Jack stopped suddenly. “What’s wrong, Jack?” his Mom asked. “The box is gone,” he said “What box?” Mom asked. “There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he’d ever tell me was ‘the thing I value most,'” Jack said. It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. “Now I’ll never know what was so valuable to him,” Jack said. “I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.”

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died.  Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. “Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,” the note read. Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. “Mr. Harold Belser” it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack’s hands shook as he read the note inside. “Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It’s the thing I valued most in my life.” A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved: “Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.” “The thing he valued most was…my time” Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. “Why?” Janet, his assistant asked. “I need some time to spend with my son,” he said. “Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!” “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,”


April 17, 2007 Posted by | Value Your Loved ones | 1 Comment

Cliff Richard – a baby boomer?

Is Sir Cliff Richard a baby boomer by definition?

No he is not, because he was born before the world war.  But his fans are mostly baby boomers. 

On Feb 9, 2007,  I  had the opportunity to attend his Here and Now concert at Arena of Stars in  Genting Highlands, Malaysia.    The crowd of almost 6000 people (the auditorium’s full capacity) are mostly in their 50’s and 60’s.  The swinging 60’s.  

And being mothers, fathers,  and some grandmothers or grandfathers  did not stop  the entire crowd from enjoying the rock concert.  The Malaysian Deputy Prime Minister, being a baby boomer himself,  also attended together with his wife.

Read more about the concert in in my other blog Malaysian Travel Bites


February 11, 2007 Posted by | Baby boomers, Cliff Richard, Malaysia, Music | 1 Comment

Interview with God


Below is a poem that acts as a gentle reminder that we are not alone.   If you want to watch a video presentation of the poem click  Interview With God

I dreamed I had an interview with God.

“So you would like to interview me?” God asked.

“If you have the time” I said.

God smiled. “My time is eternity.”
“What questions do you have in mind for me?”

“What surprises you most about humankind?”

God answered…
“That they get bored with childhood,
they rush to grow up, and then
long to be children again.”

“That they lose their health to make money…
and then lose their money to restore their health.”

“That by thinking anxiously about the future,
they forget the present,
such that they live in neither
the present nor the future.”

“That they live as if they will never die,
and die as though they had never lived.”

God’s hand took mine
and we were silent for a while.

And then I asked…
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons
you want your children to learn?”

“To learn they cannot make anyone
love them. All they can do
is let themselves be loved.”

“To learn that it is not good
to compare themselves to others.”

“To learn to forgive
by practicing forgiveness.”

“To learn that it only takes a few seconds
to open profound wounds in those they love,
and it can take many years to heal them.”

“To learn that a rich person
is not one who has the most,
but is one who needs the least.”

“To learn that there are people
who love them dearly,
but simply have not yet learned
how to express or show their feelings.”

“To learn that two people can
look at the same thing
and see it differently.”

“To learn that it is not enough that they
forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.”

“Thank you for your time,” I said humbly.

“Is there anything else
you would like your children to know?”

God smiled and said,
“Just know that I am here… always.”

-author unknown

Source : Interview With God

January 16, 2007 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

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New to WordPress

Very new to wordpress. Anyway, very new to blogging also. I didn’t know the wonders of blogging. Now that I found out about blogging some 6 months ago, I feel lost when I couldn’t logon to the internet due to the damage to the underground cables in Taiwan

January 8, 2007 Posted by | Gadgets and Technology | Leave a comment

Hello world, 47 years ago

I’m a baby boomer.  Today I celebrate my 47th birthday.

And today I decided to create a blog to write about issues that are relevant to me right now – career, health, wealth, travelling and having fun, and preparing for retirement.  This blog will also touch on how we embrace today’s technology and gadgets. 

Definition of baby boomers:

 A Baby Boomer is someone who was born during the period of increased birth rates when economic prosperity rose in many countries following World War II. In the United States, the term is iconic and more properly capitalized as Baby Boomers and commonly applied to people with birth years after World War II (WW II) and before the Vietnam War, thus possibly comprising more than one generation.   Baby boomers generally refer to those born between 1946 and 1964.

The ‘youngest’ of the baby boomers  will be in the early 40’s, while the ‘oldest’ boomers will turn 61 this year.  In America alone, there are an estimated 77 million Americans born between 1946 and 1964.  

Baby boomers are also likely to be caretakers of  2 generations of family members :  their own children (if any) and their aging parents.  This adds another element to the baby boomer equation.     

I don’t have any children, but I have adoring nephews.  My dad is 80, while my youngest nephew is 5.   That’s 3 generations apart!

I will have plenty to share with you!

January 3, 2007 Posted by | Baby boomers, Blogroll, Malaysia, Menopause, Senior citizens, Uncategorized | 6 Comments